How to stop attracting the wrong guy

What man is attracted to a woman who

thinks that she's not worth anything? You

need to have the confidence and self-

esteem to project 'dateability'.

Everyone has positive qualities, even if

they don't realize it. Okay, so you don't

have a job or you don't have a degree or

you had a bad relationship—that doesn't

mean that you wouldn't be an

understanding, compassionate,

interesting and fun girlfriend.

Everyone deserves a chance to give their

best qualities to a partner, no matter

their circumstances. You need to

remember that you have a lot to offer

and soon enough a handsome man will


Present a Positive Attitude

Now that you've figured out that you

deserve a happy relationship, you need

to adjust your attitude so you can attract

one. If you keep expecting to attract the

wrong kind of guy, you're projecting low

expectations and a pessimistic attitude

about love. So who do you think will be

attracted to that? A pessimistic guy who

isn't looking to meet ambitious

expectations and who doesn't want a lot

of boyfriend responsibilities.

If you don't present a positive attitude,

you're not going to catch the eye of a

positive guy.

There's a quick tip to help keep your

attitude positive, especially useful for

those of you who hate dating. Approach

every situation as though you're going to

to have a good time. Arrive to every date

confident that the man on the other side

of the table is going to be the love of

your life. Because one of these times, he

will be!

Figure Yourself Out

If you've mastered the first two steps and

you still can't seem to land a quality

man, there might be a problem with your

process. Do you know who you're looking

for? I'm not looking for a list like "Tall,

dark and handsome." Do you know what

kind of relationship you want? If you

haven't decided what you're looking for,

how can you expect to find someone who

satisfies you?

You don't have to settle for being a jerk-

magnet. Use these three steps to change

yourself instead of trying to change a

dirtbag into a quality boyfriend.


Kofi Oppong Kyekyeku

I am a Ghanaian Broadcast Journalist/Writer who has an interest in General News, Sports, Entertainment, Health, Lifestyle and many more.

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