What man is attracted to a woman who
thinks that she's not worth anything? You
need to have the confidence and self-
esteem to project 'dateability'.
Everyone has positive qualities, even if
they don't realize it. Okay, so you don't
have a job or you don't have a degree or
you had a bad relationship—that doesn't
mean that you wouldn't be an
understanding, compassionate,
interesting and fun girlfriend.
Everyone deserves a chance to give their
best qualities to a partner, no matter
their circumstances. You need to
remember that you have a lot to offer
and soon enough a handsome man will
too!
Present a Positive Attitude
Now that you've figured out that you
deserve a happy relationship, you need
to adjust your attitude so you can attract
one. If you keep expecting to attract the
wrong kind of guy, you're projecting low
expectations and a pessimistic attitude
about love. So who do you think will be
attracted to that? A pessimistic guy who
isn't looking to meet ambitious
expectations and who doesn't want a lot
of boyfriend responsibilities.
If you don't present a positive attitude,
you're not going to catch the eye of a
positive guy.
There's a quick tip to help keep your
attitude positive, especially useful for
those of you who hate dating. Approach
every situation as though you're going to
to have a good time. Arrive to every date
confident that the man on the other side
of the table is going to be the love of
your life. Because one of these times, he
will be!
Figure Yourself Out
If you've mastered the first two steps and
you still can't seem to land a quality
man, there might be a problem with your
process. Do you know who you're looking
for? I'm not looking for a list like "Tall,
dark and handsome." Do you know what
kind of relationship you want? If you
haven't decided what you're looking for,
how can you expect to find someone who
satisfies you?
You don't have to settle for being a jerk-
magnet. Use these three steps to change
yourself instead of trying to change a
dirtbag into a quality boyfriend.
