Most shy men tend to take too much pressure of making too much of an
effort when out on a date. And most don't even think that they can
find a date because they are too unsure of how it will go.
But there are very simple tips that can change that for you.
Choose wisely And by that we don't mean the girl, well of course you
should, but if you are asking out a girl, go to a place which you are
comfortable and familiar with. A familiar setting will help you be
relaxed and more focused on her. Also make sure it is an informal
setting so that you can be yourself.
Take conversation backups It is okay if you find yourself out of words
or conversation ideas. That happens with most introvert people. So you
can think of some nice conversation ideas and work on them beforehand.
But don't make them like a speech. Take interest in all of them and
make sure she is interested as well.
Drink a little We all know that drinking a little can make things more
relaxed and more open. So go for a couple of drinks, and only as much
as you can sincerely handle. Go for something light which will bring
the best out of you.
Take it easy And the most important tip is to take it really easy.
When the right girl comes across, everything will just simply flow and
you will not have to make extra efforts.
Credit: Abhimanyu Mishra,TNN