Ghanaian relationship and marriage expert, Counsellor Lutterodt, has given a piece of advice to men.
He said they should not marry women or use marriage to compensate them because they have helped them.
The outspoken counsellor gave this advice during a live session on Instagram that Newshuntermag.com has chanced upon.
“There are women that are supposed to help us buy houses, help us build shrines, help us build churches, but they are not supposed to become wives. They are not supposed to be wives. We don’t compensate women with marriage when they help us.
“Madam, hear me if you are helping a man to build a business, and he feels so excited. And keeps saying that if not for you, the company wouldn’t grow, and I don’t know what to do for you so that God would forgive me sins. All that I need now is to marry you so that everything ends. Princess, if you help a man and he marries you, you will suffer. Let a man marry you out of his own free will. Let him marry you because he knows in his heart that you deserve to be a wife,” he stated.
Counsellor Lutterodt indicated that married women are treated differently compared to Baby Mamas.
“Let us learn that being a baby mama has a rule. Follow the rule. I keep saying that when a woman legitimately and lawfully decides to have a child with a man whiles you are not married, I am not against you, but you need to understand the protocols that are involved in taking seed for a man that is not married to you. Because there are things that must happen to married women with children. And some things must happen to women who are just baby mamas.”